---- Faini, Vincent D. Faini, Christianity, Conversations with Neo, Adventures in Marine Biology, Most People Talk Bullshit: One Primates Search For Intelligent Life, Phoenix Michaels, Touch of the Beast: Brent Fletcher, Requiem for a Midlife Crisis---- --

OUR MISSION POSSIBLE 

World Wide Team Government Romance Networking Community Chats Groups

  

 

 

 

SITE MAP

 

Custom Search

 

 

 

 

 What Makes Me Such An Expert Everything?

That question is simple! Because I am Vinny, world-renown expert on my opinions!

 

      My viewpoints and opinions are more often than not, hard-won beliefs. They are the product of years of extensive research, experimentation, observation. When I look at any aspect of life....like each of you, I want to know how things really work. When examining any belief system, we are left with the challenge to see if that system of beliefs has real value. I always have to ask myself many questions such as:

  • How effective is this system of beliefs for me as an individual, for any organization...and ultimately for humanity?

  • How many flaws are embedded within this system of beliefs. (Almost every system has flaws whether for the individual ascribing to this system or the organization that you may belong to)?

  • Are all of the beliefs or opinions within the system verifiable; meaning can they be examined and put to the test?.

  • Does the system of beliefs include other people and organizations or is it exclusive, to a rare selected or genetically gifted few?

  • Finally, are there better systems around that would serve you or your organizations more effectively and also humanity as a whole; or are there at least certain aspects in your belief system that can be modified or even thrown out?

     One of the biggest stumbling blocks for ALL of us is the tendency to hold on to our beliefs strongly without looking for further evidence or verification to support our theories or beliefs. In fact we often will refuse to look at any or all evidence that shows our beliefs to be flawed. We may even go so far as to become angry or violent when evidence is shoved in our faces showing that our beliefs are nothing more than a sham.

 

     As I have gone through life I have suffered from this dogmatism as well. Perhaps to a lesser degree than most people but nevertheless it was still there. Twenty years ago, a few of my former coworkers actually cured me of the malady of reflexively holding on to cherished unexamined beliefs.

 

     Prior to meeting my new friends I have spent most of my life growing up with people as dysfunctional as me. My former friends and I did all that we could to agree with each other...and in the instances we knew that we could not agree we would not call each other on our mistakes. Instead, we would all just allow each other to prattle on with our erroneous beliefs.

 

     My new friends did not suffer remotely with regards to hurting my feelings and by telling me I was wrong on some of my cherished beliefs that I had verbalized to them. Both of my new friends are very educated and very intelligent. In addition they were more verbally skilled than me and much more verbally aggressive as they tried to overwhelm me with their beloved ideals.

 

    I became very angry and hurt! How dare they be so rude as to say I was wrong?! How dare they to be so callus as to what this overt attack on to my ideals would mean to my feelings?! I managed a pretty good job not showing my hurt and anger; but, it was right there and then that I realized I could never be friends with these heartless sons-of-bitches. I went off to pout as the hurt and anger festered within me. Bastards, I privately railed.

 

    The next day at work, these two no-good-bastards greeted me with genuine eagerness to hang out and interact. I was perplexed. Back east, what had happened the previous day would have been grounds for a fist-fight! These two coworkers had seemed to forgotten their transgressions, or to be accurate, they did not judge what they felt to be my flawed beliefs to be what is essentially "Vinny".

 

     It was apparent to me that they still valued my company, my friendship and they even respected my advice in areas that I am an expert in. It was then that I learned that people can just disagree on a few issues while holding the same person up with high regard.

 

     As I had time to ponder all of this, I managed to question why I had really gotten angry, and why I had felt bone deep hurt. After much cogitating, it hit me! I was angry because I was hurt. I was hurt, because I felt that an attack or disagreement on my opinions and beliefs was an attack on my intelligence; ultimately I felt that this called into question my value and worthiness as a person. Was my place in the cosmos so incidental?

 

      After much soul searching, I figured that while I am not Stephen Hawkins or Richard Feyman, I did indeed have a reasonably intelligent brain-stem. I realized that the only time I was wrong was when I did not have all of the relevant information to make the best choices as to which beliefs or plans I needed to make, if I wanted to navigate in the most effective manner through life.

 

     *(In the field of mathematics, I could have all relevant information, but I would lack the education to fully appreciate various theorems, so obviously the chance for mistakes would be likely).

    

     So there it was for most human beings! All of us, needs ALL  relevant information to be assured that we possess the truth on any given item.

 

      When I first debated with my two friends, They questioned the veracity of what I was asserting on two very controversial subjects that we had stumbled upon. I made some bold assertions that I felt were true. They felt that my statements were wrong or there was not enough evidence to make such claims. The fact of the matter was that neither side had on hand enough evidence or documentation to prove such assertions. That however is not the point.

What is the point was that I was not capable of simply saying that I respected their opinion, but at a later date we will keep our stances until I could present them with irrefutable evidence.

 

(As it turned out, years later I was able to bring sufficient proof to close the argument. Also, it turned out that neither of my two friends liked to be told that they are wrong!).

 

Oh well, Just being A world-renowned expert on my own opinions is work enough: It keeps me too busy to worry too much about other people finding the truth.

 

    It was from that moment that I decided to take  great pains to do as much research on any given subject that interests me. I will read everything I can find and talk to all of the experts, and put the harsh scrutiny of observation on the subject of my interests, and finally, there is the process of experimentation. 

 

    Experimentation is essential to test your premise or the premises of others. For example, it does not matter how many PhDs' or experts say what is the gospel... if the gospel does not work for you.

 

     Allow me to explain further by giving you an example. I have lifted weights for about thirty-five years. I have always had a passion for strength in every form; endurance strength, speed strength, absolute strength, every kind of strength imaginable. When I first started out... there was not near the knowledge that we have today.

 

     I started training with a basic book from Sears & Roebuck when I purchased their plastic coated weight set. I used their instructions and of course I started to experiment on various programs that I devised on my own because of imaginings and questions as to what if... My experimentation put my training and thereby the progression I made way ahead of my friends. I had developed theories as to why this was the case.

 

     Eventually, I was fortunate enough to talk to a handful of world class strength athletes - a few of which were for years world record holders in several weight classes. Compared to their training protocols mine was considered eccentric at best and outright nuts at worst. Besides being champions, a few of these lifters had credential such as masters degrees in science or PhD in sports or what have you. A few of them were not so kind and told me that my training methods were hair-brained and that I would never attain any respectable level of strength.

 

     I actually took their advice to heart and I tossed out all of my training ideas and slavishly followed the leading champion's advice. When his didn't work, I tried another champion's training regimen and eventually, I went through the entire stable of champions. Their advice seemed to work well for them and there was the question of steroid use. The word on the grapevine was that they took steroids. Since I don't know that if this is true or not, I will not even address that issue. What they did do worked for them, but not for many people...clearly not at all for me.

 

     The big question was, were they using the best training program best suited for them?

 

     Before I ask you to consider that question, let me share with you my performance at the age of forty.At the bodyweight of one hundred and eighty pounds  I was able to bench press 460 pounds with a pause and 480 touch and go. I could at the end of a high volume workout finish off with 300 pounds in a behind the neck press all the way down to my shoulders with a pause. I could do a underhand preacher curl at the end of a workout with 180 pounds. I could do body building squats (Upright and very deep with 425 pounds for 25 repetitions for my first set and pyramid up to finish off with 600 pounds at the end of a high volume workout. I was able to do 525 pounds for 25 repetitions in the squats if I did it like Louie Simmons power lifting style. (This style adds 100 pounds on any given rep range). I could do dips with 225 pounds strapped to me for 25 reps and finish off with 300 pounds strapped to my body.

    

     And if I had not suffered from unfortunate circumstance from the federal agency that I worked and if I had not been in a car accident, it is likely that I would have broke the world's record for non-steroid users in my weight class and it is likely that I would have broken the worlds record in the squat in any event...even against steroid users.

I estimate that within another year I would have benched three times my bodyweight without a bench shirt. and squatted eight hundred pounds. (For those of you that are unaware, a three times a body weight bench - without a bench shirt - is done by only a handful of men on the planet).

 

     Once again, I make this statement to assure all of you that I would have attained this level of strength, not from superior genetics... but only because of proper training. At best my genetics are average and many people would perform at levels much higher than me if they used many of the training methods and protocols that I have learned.

     Most people would think that I have the fireplug body of a power lifter. I do not. While I do have optimal leverages for squats, my leverages for strength in every other movement is less than optimal. For instance, I have a six foot two inch wing span with exceptionally long forearms. This is a double no-no in power lifting, yet despite these disadvantages I have performed at high world class level without every using steroids.

    

     Also, it is my belief that most people, without the use of steroids or "Superior genetics" could achieve this level of strength by simply applying the proper scientific protocol for their specific body's needs.

 

    All of my claims can be verified by many reliable sources.

 

    Now it is time to get to the nitty gritty of my point; I am not telling you all of these statistics for the purpose of self glorification. I am simply trying to make a point...and that is, after thirty-five years of my eccentric style of training I have been vindicated. Exercise physiology has made many advances in knowledge and it as been discovered that all of my hair-brained ideas are now considered state-of-the-art cutting edge training protocols.

 

    All of my theories as to what in the body was being stimulated also turned out to be true. In fact, many of the former champions have apologized for their error in judgment and fully acknowledge that they would have done better if they utilized these various training methods.

 

    To bring my point to a close, what I knew did not come from the gift of high intelligence. Only because I was willing to experiment, research, observe, research some more, and then more experimentation to see what worked and what didn't and ultimately...what worked the best was I able to excel to a level once thought impossible without the use of steroids.

 

    I have learned as the great horse trainer Steve Parnell has said, "There is good, better and best". I believe it behooves us to strive for the best. Sure go for good in the beginning, then better, but ultimately the best is where it is at.

 

     I know that this principle applies to every aspect of our lives...to every endeavor we strive in. The truth is no different. We should always strive for the total truth, or at least constantly and consistently seek to always achieve the closest approximation of the truth if proof positive elude us.

 

    We must all become world-renown experts of our own opinions, instead of the amateurs that we so often and too easily fall back too.

 

     In parting you may ask..."Do you honestly strive for the truth in every single situation in life like you have in weight training?" Truthfully? No! A few occasions I have not, whether it was due to laziness, or simply that I did not have the time; and during those times I usually paid for my laziness or not being able to take the time in a bad way.

 

     However, I do not defend my erroneous beliefs with fist fights if I am told and even proven that I am wrong.

Also on rare occasions at worst nothing bad may have happened, but, I did not benefit nearly of what I would if I left no stone unturned towards the quest for truth.

    Let me know what you think?

 

     Coming Soon: How I Will Manage To Take My Beat Up Fifty-Plus Body & Whip Myself Back Into The Kind of Shape That You See of Me Holding A Trophy At The Age of Forty!

 

Homepage

faini

 

 

 

brent fletcher

 

 

 

most people talk bullshit

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
HOME

Contact

  Today's Date: